Tom LaGrave, LCSW

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LCSW License #23800

Hello, my name is Tom LaGrave, and I’m a Licensed Clinical Social Worker helping youth and adults at Petaluma Family Therapy.

I am a former Navy SEAL, and on a personal note, have been in recovery from addiction for 28 years. I share this to demonstrate that I’ve “been there”, I have empathy toward those in recovery, and I’m living proof that hope exists.

During the most challenging times of my personal journey, I examined my years as a SEAL, and recalled the conditioning and mindset that led me to want to beat my addiction. My personal and professional experience has taught me that addiction can be conquered by accepting, at times embracing, a range of emotions, including emotional pain.


I began working with youth, transitioned to the developmentally disabled, convicts in correctional facilities, and finally with present day Special Forces Operators as a Military and Family Life Counselor (MFLC). In these roles, I observed the commonalities between PTSD, substance abuse, stress, conflict, depression, and anxiety. I’ve incorporated Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Eye Movement Desensitization Reprocessing (EMDR), and hypnosis as the models utilized in my therapeutic practice.


Masters of Social Welfare (M.S.W.)

Cornerstone University
Bachelor of Business Administration (B.B.A.)


License Clinical Social Worker (LCSW)
Board of Behavioral Sciences – California
LCSW 23800

Board Certified Diplomate in Clinical Social Work (BCD)
American Board of Examiners
BCD 57262

Board Certified Expert PTSD
American Psychotherapy Association
License 15819